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Your time is important. So is others'time.

Thursday, December 27, 2018

We always think our time is mostly important and it's true. When we have an appointment with someone, as normal persons, we expect to meet that person at the time both sides agreed. And if something unexpected came up, causing us to be late, we would try our best to keep the other side informed as soon as possible.  If you agree with what I said, that could mean you not only think about your own interest but also you care enough about others. Be proud of yourself, you have decent mind and manner.
  
However, some people seem not understand such simple way of thinking and practicing. They get the first half of the idea--time is mostly important but only for their own part. They couldn't grasp the importance of others' time. So this kind of thick skulls are seen very often late or even not show up at the appointments, despite their own ones. Some might make an excuse, while others wouldn't care to make up one.  Some might care for giving an apology, but later  you would experience that their apologies come easily and mean nothing more than a slip of their tongue.

I sometimes have met this kind of people who care little about others although it's not what I ever wish for.  I have to put myself in control to cope with them professionally. Yet, I can't help letting them know that I am not pleased with their tardiness or disappearance especially with no reason, or irrational reasons.

Some seem learned and improved, but not a few seem hopeless for improvement. The latter carry on their self-center-ness, and even a tough-skin like me can do nothing but let it go. I just tell myself that for the sake of  my own mind and peace, let karma do its job to this kind of hopeless persons. 

What would you do if you were in my shoes? 

Happy Boxing Day 
Gigi  :)
  

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